Black & White Bridal Shower Tied With a Bow
Proof That DIY Can Still Feel Elevated
If you’re planning a black and white–themed celebration and love a good DIY moment, this one’s for you. This bridal shower we designed last spring was all about showing how intentional choices + the right partners can turn a hands-on event into something that still feels polished and editorial. This is the kind of project we adore: creative, collaborative, and totally doable with a little guidance. We leaned into a modern black-and-white palette to keep things clean, timeless, and flexible.
The goal?
Make it approachable for a DIY host, without sacrificing style.
Florals: We sourced blooms from Fifty Flowers, a locally headquartered floral provider specifically tailored to the DIY client. The ordering process was seamless, everything arrived fresh and on time, and the selection made it easy to stay on theme without overthinking it.
Centerpieces: These were created together with a small group of friends and immediate family—simple recipes, easy assembly, and a fun pre-event activity that doubled as quality time.
Statement Arrangements: For the larger, more intricate floral moments, Posies Floral stepped in to handle the elevated pieces. This hybrid approach is one of our favorite tricks: DIY where it makes sense, professional support where it counts.
Splurge on Linen and Chairs: Linen and chairs in an event space can make the biggest visual impact. Imagine the space below with simple white linen - it would have felt bare and just “okay”. But, adding in a bold pattern filled in the design space with a fun, chic design and really allowed the chairs and floral to pop. We can help line up your rentals and linen!
Why This Approach Works
This shower is a great example of what we love showing DIY-focused clients:
✔️ You don’t have to do everything yourself
✔️ Strategic outsourcing saves stress (and often money)
✔️ A limited color palette = instant cohesion
✔️ Professional design guidance helps DIY feel intentional, not chaotic
With a little planning—and a little help from Ira and Lucy—DIY doesn’t have to mean cutting corners. It can mean creating something personal, meaningful, and beautifully executed.
A special gift opening vignette for the bride!
Custom Cookies from @steph_sweets_
DIY Flower Kit I Recommend from Fifty Flowers:
Classic Black And White DIY Flower Kit: The Classic Black And White DIY Flower Kit brings timeless contrast and modern elegance to your floral designs. This curated kit features a crisp mix of white hydrangea, white carnations, white anemones, white ranunculus, white roses, and white spray roses paired with deep black toned blooms and textured greenery to create a striking monochromatic palette. Perfect for weddings, corporate events, and stylish celebrations, this kit allows you to craft bouquets, centerpieces, or statement arrangements with ease. Ideal for minimalists who love high impact florals with a refined finish. VIEW HERE
Black Tinted Ruscus Greenery: Tinted Black Ruscus is a sophisticated and modern greenery that brings an edgy, contemporary look to any floral arrangement. With its smooth, dark-tinted leaves, this Ruscus is perfect for adding depth and contrast. Ideal for event decor, floral designs, or as a striking accent in your home, the black tint elevates its natural elegance with a sleek, dramatic twist. Pair this white raunculus, walk of fame garden roses, and willow branches for a moody look. VIEW HERE
Thinking About a DIY Celebration?
If you’re dreaming up a bridal shower, engagement party, or intimate celebration and want it to feel elevated without going fully full-service, we’d love to help you find that sweet spot.
Save this post for inspiration—and when you’re ready, let’s design something together 🤍🖤
Photography @jmichelsenphotography
Floral @fiftyflowers @posiesfloraldesign
Cookies @stephsweets
Linen @iraandlucy
Chairs @blushcreekchairrentals
Settee @rustiquerentalsandeventdesign
Planning & Venue @whitebarn_weddings
Design Support @iraandlucy
